Story: I like my husband but, nights with another person

She likes her husband. But, she is having s@x on the phone with another unmarried man. On this occasion, she stated her problem.

Problem: I am 32 years old. I'm married. There is also a child. My husband loves me very much. But, he could not fulfill my desires in the bedroom. With this, I got acquainted with an unmarried young man. I never met him physically any day. But, let's chat online today. We got very close through Facebook. Eventually, we were also having phone s@x. We also exchange our private photos. Until now we only chatted in the mornings. But now he does not have that time. With this, we are doing that work at night. I like my husband. But, I was emotionally very close to that person. I feel so happy while chatting with him. But the guilt of cheating on my husband is killing me. I know such relationships do not last long. But I can not stop. Continue this relationship? I do not understand whether to end with this. I could not even sleep with those thoughts. I can’t even focus on work. Can tell you how to get out of this problem.

Answer: Your problem is understood. It is common to be attracted to others for certain purposes. But you must understand one thing. It does not matter how old you are in this new relationship. But, do not forget that no matter what relationship you have with someone else, it will hurt your husband severely. Because of that you completely lose his trust. Then life becomes more burdensome. Whether you are together on the phone .. physically together .. the fact that you are intimate with another person hurts your husband. Thoughts like these come because you do not spend much time with your husband. Breaking up with another person is not an easy task. But, you must come out of that circle with a view to the future.

If you believe your husband understands you, tell him honestly. It eliminates the notion of doing something wrong. Also, your husband may try to correct his own mistakes. But, it is a very risky thing. It also lacks the chances of increasing the distance between you. Be sure to consult an s@x therapist or specialist if the physical distance between you has increased. As a result, your s@x life is likely to improve.

- Advised by: Dr. Rachna Khanna Singh, Holistic Medicine Specialist, Psychologist, Gurgaon

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