Relationship: Ro*mance with a girl in the office my wife knows, but 

Married to him. There are two children. He is currently in love with a married girl in the office. With this, he wants to divorce his wife and cohabit with her.

Problem: I have been married for nine years. We have a three-year-old daughter, seven months old. I was dating my wife a year before the wedding. After that, I got married with the idea that she would be with me for the rest of my life. But, it seems now that I have to spend more time with her then and make a decision. I have been dating a young woman in our office for over a year. She was married. But, no children. We love each other. My wife found out about this. With this, I promised my wife that I would never meet her again. Of course, I never left her. Now we both want to coexist. But, I could not divorce my wife because of the children. Leaving my wife .. Can I marry a co-worker I love? Can advise.

Answer: You are married. It is said that there were also two children. It is said that you are also married to the young woman you love. Right now it seems that your coworker has more feelings for you than your wife. It is said that children are a hindrance to your divorce right now. This is a critical issue for you. But, you think about the future. The decision you make should be in the best interests of your children. But, they should not be allowed to ruin the future.

Says your coworker is also married. Even if she leaves her husband and stays with you .. there is a problem of trouble in the future. There is also the risk that you will lose confidence in each other upfront. So .. think about which relationship will be safe for you in the coming days. First, you have to think of a few things. Why did you marry your wife? Are there any problems with your bond? There is one more thing you must think of.

Your wife is taking care of two children. You do not see her fall. Spending more time with a co-worker in the office than with your wife. However, being together with a coworker in life is not as easy as one might imagine. You need to be mentally clear before making any decision. It doesn't matter if you break up with your coworker. She has a husband. But, understand how you can live with children if you leave your wife. Seek the advice of a psychiatrist if possible.

Advisor: Rachna Avatramani, Counseling Psychologist, Mumbai

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